Skip to main content

Working Mothers

Since this is my newest favorite "rant" topic, it seemed appropriate to blog on it. Since moving to Germany, I've observed a dearth of working mothers around me - and see a fairly high population of mothers choosing to stay home. Thanks to a combination of extremely family friendly employment policies (women can take up to 3 years, 2 without pay, away from work to raise children and still have their job guaranteed upon return) and unfriendly government policies towards a two-income household (school usually ends by 1:30 pm; daycare spots are extremely hard to come by for the under-3 set, shopping hours are limited for errand-running on evenings and weekends, and don't get me started on the *costs* to have a working spouse - higher tax class, no "mother pay", separate health insurance payments... I could go on... ), moms who want to work in Germany are faced with tough and often expensive choices.

The last phrase is not so different from the US, but when you factor in the high cost to live here, and the financial incentives to keep a spouse at home to raise children... the proof is in the pudding. In Germany, only 14 percent of women with one child resume full-time work and a strikingly tiny 6 percent of those with two. Further, where Swedish executive suites boast 17 percent women and the United States and Britain 14 percent, in Germany it is only 2 percent — as in India, according to McKinsey’s 2010 Women Matter report. 

And then you have articles like these, evidence of how important, at least in theory, it is to support working mothers in the US. Though the US has fallen tlast place among developed nations in supports for working families, clearly on the other end of the spectrum from Germany, companies take the concept of support for working mothers in their own hands. Find the right employer, and you can grow your career as your grow your family. 

As an expat here who loves my work as much as I love my family, I want incentives to go back to work that are equal to those for staying home. If the choice is mine to make, it should be equal either way. Priority spots at daycare... subsidized backup childcare... better availability of activities after school and during school breaks...or reduce the subsidies and incentives on the other side. 

Comments

  1. I think a kiddo has arrived. Update on that :)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Good guess based on this blog topic! He's two months old and I'm using up maternity leave time to take him around Europe with me :) Look for more posts and even some pics soon...

      Delete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Saturday Morning Comparisons: by haiku

2 haikus 9 am Sunday morning in downtown Austin: Cyclists in spandex spin by Amidst the stench of vomit and homelessness Empty streets save for a motorcycle parade. 9 am Sunday morning, Alstadt, Mainz: The sun is shining A giant farmer's market fills the plaza Pedestrians, bikers, families smiling together.

Repatriation, Month 2

We're in the second month of returning stateside. What an evolution it's been. We relied heavily on family to get us through the first few weeks, spending nearly every weekend with cousins. It was nice, but they have their own routine, and we needed to establish our own. Finally, with the house painted, new floors installed, furniture delivered (hallelujah!), assembled, and boxes (mostly) cleared out, it looks like a house we can live in. Camping had become exhausting and wore the kids out. On the other hand, suddenly having a full house somewhat overwhelmed them - they would start massive fights over a single toy, ignoring the fact that there were now quite a lot of options to choose from. Given our long-term exhaustion over the past several months, this has been an annoying challenge. We have started to establish more of a routine though, and I already feel my mood lifted because of it. I hope it's the same for the kids. The early morning school routine hurts (whyyyyy...

The Failure of the Mueller Development in Austin

About ten years ago, development began on a 'forward-looking', 'sustainable', 'transit-oriented' planned residential development that would be near the city, called  Mueller in Austin. Today, it's wildly popular, with higher-than-average per-square-foot housing costs, high HOA fees, and homes selling quickly. However, I believe it is a total failure. Austin had a chance to start from a clean slate, where a truly people-centered community could be built. One with dedicated bike lanes, infrastructure for transit growth plans (extra lanes for bus rapid transit lines... tracks for a tram... anything, really). One with businesses sprinkled throughout the community in a way that would offer true walkability. More options like the garden court homes (which sold super quickly, by the way, but are unfortunately VERY limited in quantity) which have protected and shared backyard space for multiple homes in the same way a German baugruppe of housing might. Things th...