Things I've learned while on the road...

Before my next travel-specific posts go up, a few lessons learned. May they help you, and remind me what (not) to do...

1. If you're going to show up at your destination and have a place to stay, knowing exactly how you'll get there is worth the effort. Pay attention to the transit schedules, if you're relying on a bus or a train, or you could be in for a very expensive taxi ride.

2. Learn key phrases, or be confident with your nonverbal gestures for the following: "delay"; "on-time"; "excuse me, you are in my seat!"; "is this seat taken?"; and the favorite, "do you speak English / I don't speak (insert language here)"

3. Though a website may claim the staff speaks fluent English, be prepared for them not to! Just in case.

4. Cash is king.

5. Build in time to wander.

6. Always carry a map, extra snacks, a bit of water, and some patience.

7. There is almost too much information out there on the "best" places to see or the "must-do" lists of what to do. Pick a publisher, a few blogs, or a couple of websites that you like, and stick with them - avoid information overload and leave space to form your own opinions.

What are the key lessons you've learned on the road?

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